What does a divorced woman know about love and relationships? A LOT. I’ve been questioning love and relationships my whole life. Truthfully, I’m fascinated by the concept of love, how we think about love, and how we make choices around love. What I’ve learned is that there are MANY different kinds of love, many ways to love and be loved, and many ways to experience love.
For starters, not everyone has to get married and live “happily ever after.” In fact, not everyone is looking for that. Sometimes divorce is necessary, and sometimes we must part from a relationship that feels toxic. We all know people who are happily single, while some in marriage are miserable. Clearly, a relationship doesn’t guarantee love or happiness, but the right relationship can certainly create them. How we choose love and what we need to learn from our partner relationships is actually unique for each of us.
We all carry beliefs about partner relationships, especially romantic partners. Most of those beliefs were formed without us even being aware—from our parents and society. Some of these old love beliefs may still work for us currently, but many may not serve us at all anymore. Coaching can help you sort through those out-dated belief systems and create ones that work for you going forward in your life. When you change your beliefs about love and partnership, you have the ability to transform your partner relationships into something that feels authentic, meaningful and beautiful for you right now.
We can’t change the past, but we can learn from it. Life coaching allows us to start from where we are today, and cultivate the loving relationships that we want in the future.
Always with love,
Heather